Raise your hand if you struggle with how to teach contentment and thankfulness to your kids.
{I’m waving both hands wildly in the air}
Let’s face it. I’m a grown adult and sometimes I struggle to be content and thankful!
I want my children to learn how to be content with where they are and what they have. If I’m honest, most days I’m having “talks” with them and trying to convince them to be more thankful.
My “talks” sound something like this:
- No. You don’t need another stuffed animal when you have 50 others you don’t play with.
- Yes you got a toy the last time we went shopping but that doesn’t mean you get one on every trip.
- The only reason you want that toy is because your brother has it. Let’s share guys!
How in the world do I teach a concept like thankfulness to my kids?
It’s not as hard as you might think!
When it comes to kids, sometimes having a visual representation of a concept can help them understand it better. This is where the thankful tree activity comes in.
The thankful tree is a place you can document all the things you and your family are thankful for during the Thanksgiving season. It’s an activity you can do together and make a Thanksgiving season tradition. Plus this gives your kids a chance to work on fine motor skills like writing, cutting and taping!
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Next, print the thankful tree and the coordinating leaves. I chose to print them on white cardstock to give them more stability. Each person can have their own tree or the whole family can share one.
With a black pen or thin Sharpie, write down one thing you’re thankful for on a leaf. Then cut out the leaf and tape it on the tree.
You can add one or two leaves to the tree each day or fill up the tree in one setting. It’s totally up to you! When Thanksgiving comes, we’ll each share all the things we’re thankful for.
We started out putting one leaf on the tree the first day. Then the next day we added more leaves. I like being able to add one or two a day and spread the thankfulness over time.
I decided to give each of the kids their own tree while the Hubby and I shared one.
Some helpful tips:
Don’t worry about cutting along all the edges of each leaf. This is designed to be an easy activity! Feel free to cut lazily around the delicate corners of the leaf like I did here:
Since the leaves and tree were printed on the same paper, the leaf blended in just fine.
Let the kids get involved as much as they can. My son is too young to write, so he was happy to help stick the leaves on to the tree. He was most thankful for his constant companion Lion (his creatively named stuffed Lion).
I love this activity because it gave my daughter a chance to work on her handwriting. She’s worked so hard to learn how to write all the letters of the alphabet in Kindergarten and it’s fun for her to see her writing in artwork.
The first two things she wanted to put on her thankful tree was her favorite stuffed animals, Lammie and Grover. Seeing her writing is just precious!
This is the kind of artwork we’ll look back on years from now and smile!
We got our thankful trees started and will add leaves to it as the month goes on. They’re being proudly displayed on our fridge. It will be fun to see what our thankful trees will look like at Thanksgiving!
Some other tips on teaching your kids thankfulness:
Be thankful yourself. If they see you constantly complaining about wanting a new car, a new this or that, they’ll pick up on that attitude in no time. Trust me. I’ve seen it in my own family!
Tell them your real life stories of thankfulness. Last year I did a whole Thankful Thursday series, telling stories of what God has done in my life. I love to share the story of how God made it possible for us to buy our home.
What are some ways you cultivate thankfulness?
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